Ephesians 5:21-33: The Mystery That Makes a Marriage

Marriage requires intentional effort to thrive, much like a fire needs constant fuel. Paul's teachings in Ephesians 5:21-33 reveal that how you do marriage matters more than who you marry. The concept of finding 'the one' isn't biblical and creates unrealistic expectations. True biblical submission involves mutual sacrifice and service, not dominance. Both spouses are called to love and respect even when it's unearned, following Christ's example of unconditional love. Practical steps include avoiding public criticism, fighting fair, praying together, and being intentional in pursuit of your spouse.